And while neither of us expected anything to come of a casual date — he was visiting the States from Berlin and I was enjoying my first summer of freedom after wrapping up undergrad — life really does happen while you're busy making other plans. If I had to pinpoint the single most important element of making it through a period apart, it is hands down having a plan. I feel that I should let him do the chasing but at the same time want to keep him interested too. I think you need to listen to what he has told you about himself. Previous Post Previous Post. My suggestion is you can ask your guy how he feels, try to understand his situation as much as you can, and see how much you are willing to take from this relationship and how much you are willing to give.
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Do you want it to be casual or a committed one?
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My suggestion is you can ask your guy how he feels, try to understand his situation as much as you can, and see how much you are willing to take from this relationship and how much you are willing to give. I held on for too long. What do I mean by taking matters into your own hands? BUT you cannot expect results like you can expect from a committed relationship by going no contact. Originally Posted by foxy I know it sounds stupid but the challenge of dating him actually makes me more interested. But that year an a half was far from easy. But what you need to do is just slowly fill your life with more interesting things and people and gradually that will go away.